It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man. Drives me a bit crazy. I just found this blog. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple.


She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself. The first vision is something she taught endlessly as a missionary - same with the Book of Mormon translation. The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. You should not be trying to be exclusive with one person, so go on dates with as many people as you can.
We still went on dates when we could, but it became less and less often. It's the sort of super dismissive "all women are the same" attitude that I learned in church and left to get away from. Not sure I want to marry one and live a lonely life, I just want a life partner that can be there for me and any future children. I am married to an ER doc. There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives. That's just too high a price to pay. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. Does that make sense. People should marry for love, not money.
Mormons are also taught "Families can be together forever. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. There are all kinds of Mormons, and we as exmormons should know better than to stereotype our former selves. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. He sees all families being able to stay together. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. I started dating "A" right after he graduated med school and as he started his residency.